When a guy meets a girl for the first time, what goes through his mind? When a girl meets a guy for the first time, what goes through her mind?
Having hung out with loads of guys and babes and studied their ways, I am familiar with the first thing that goes through each mind when they set their eyes on the opposite sex.
For him, his first thought is to check out your body and your so called assets. Has she got a nice body; flat tummy, reasonable boobs, nicely curved hips and a squeezable bum? How well do this rate? Whether or not he decides to approach the lady next is a matter of the conclusions he makes to these questions.
For her, her first thought is to check out the charisma he exuberates, his body and at times how rich he is, and his package? Whether or not she decides to go depends at times on how persistent he is, how well he is good with his words and how cute he is, physically and personality wise.
Now there are different sets of women in this world; the religious beauty, the materialistic ravisher, the sex freak, the knockout, and the perfect combo. Lets take a look at each;
The religious beauty: On her first encounter with a guy, she tries to make it as obvious as possible that she is so into her religion. So you hear lines like; what religion are you and how serious are you with it? She tries to win the guy over to her religion. As such on first seeing the guy, she is checking out how committed he is to his way of life, his personality and whatever religion he falls under. To her that's the priority before she goes to check out his build, and physical attributes.
The materialistic ravisher: Now she knows the guy with the big bucks. On first impression if you ain't got any funds and you are dressed like you have got nothing, she gives you a ridiculous glance over and either turns away ignoring you or walks away. The first thoughts as she looks at you is how much money are you reeking of. For her, she wants to see the Armani, Gucci, Prada, LV, Polo, and the D&G's. By just looking at you and giving you the once over, she can tell how much money you have got, and if you are playing rich or not (that is, if you have had to borrow these items to try and impress her).
The sex freak: She's all about the package. I mean how big are you down there and what she can do with that. So the men at heart with boy packages have got no chance with her. An exception might be if he knows how to use his other assets (i don't have to mention them, am sure you all know what am talking about...) or is capable of ensuring that she is satisfied to the core. Even for her, the physical appearance goes a long way in determining whether or not she actually decides to get to the stage of getting to see, and feel the package.
The knockout: Now she is the babe that leaves a lasting impression on the guy. I mean from the time he sets his eyes on her, she is all he wants. Why? She has got the total package; from the looks to the personality, to how she carries herself and how she dresses. This girl knows her stuff; what flatters her and who she is. She is proud of what she is and this is portrayed by how she carries and presents herself. Now she is the type a guy sees and straight away wants to wife. You have got to have your shit together to impress her and even get her to notice you as hse knows her worth.
The perfect combo: She is a mix of all the previous sets. She has got the mix of the sets explained above in the perfect blend a guy admires. She is religious, spends wisely on things that flatter her and are a necessity, encourages wise spending and a little spoiling once in awhile, knows her stuff in bed and has got the beauty and brains (the knock-out effect). Now she is the take home to mama and introduce as her new daughter in-law type. All she looks for is someone who is not afraid to let her in and get to know him for who is really he, what he has to offer and who she can be to him. Her choice is not necessarily dependent on the physical attributes but on a combination of character and how she is attracted to you.
Is there a possibility of meeting a woman with certain attributes from the sets? Yes, I believe there is. To an extent I believe there is a combination of sets during our life-cycle.
Now there are different sets of men in this world; the religious hunk, the goal getter, the mama's boy, the grandiose, and the perfect combo. Lets take a look at each;
The religious hunk: These guys will hardly date girls they did not meet in their religious setting. On his first encounter with a chick, she tries to see how seriously she takes the matters of God. He looks for the active participants in the place of worship. So choir members, ushers, creche workers etc tickle his fancy. Who a girl is and how she carries herself in the religious setting determines if he makes a move on you as this are the major determining factors for him when making a choice.
The goal getter: This is the career oriented man. His type of chick is a woman that can hold her own. She must have a good job with steady career progression. He is likely to meet girls he goes for through his business contacts, connections or work-related events . He will not go for a girl that could potentially be a liability for him. He likes that she works and they can rub minds together on the intellectual and social level. He loves to look good in public and admires a woman that matches this.
The mama's boy: The way to his heart is to possess the character he loves in his mom. Also once you win his mom over you are in. He looks for the comforting things that he has associated with his mom in girls. So if his mom is a great cook and that what he really loves; you will be considered as long as you know your stuff in the kitchen.Whatever he likes in his mom as long as you possess that quality you are fine.
The grandiose: Now he is into impressing others.As long as a girl is extravagant, flamboyant, and showy; you have got his attention. So if you are into designers, big cars and the likes you are definately his type. Now he might not be necessarily rich so if his status can be upgraded or you can support the life style he tries to protray, you are in.
The perfect combo: Now he has the other sets in a perfect mix. He is the man girls die to be with. The take me home to dad type as I have found the guy! As such he is a keeper. At the rate at which girls throw themselves at him, all he wants is one that loves him and makes him happy. Obviously he has to be attracted to you. He looks for a woman who can see beyond the pretense and machoness to who he really his and help build and support his future with her in it.
A lot of men and women go through at least two of these sets during their life-time as different factors affect us during our life cycle.
A saying goes; its all good and nice to love the body but when that fades what will be left...
According to Mcpaul; "love is not blind, it sees but it doesn't mind" As I see it; " if you want a guy to love you for a lifetime, love his heart not his money; if you want a girl to love you for a lifetime, love her soul not her body". There will be a point when the money and the physical or material attributes will all fade, then what will be the focus?Now there are different sets of women in this world; the religious beauty, the materialistic ravisher, the sex freak, the knockout, and the perfect combo. Lets take a look at each;
The religious beauty: On her first encounter with a guy, she tries to make it as obvious as possible that she is so into her religion. So you hear lines like; what religion are you and how serious are you with it? She tries to win the guy over to her religion. As such on first seeing the guy, she is checking out how committed he is to his way of life, his personality and whatever religion he falls under. To her that's the priority before she goes to check out his build, and physical attributes.
The materialistic ravisher: Now she knows the guy with the big bucks. On first impression if you ain't got any funds and you are dressed like you have got nothing, she gives you a ridiculous glance over and either turns away ignoring you or walks away. The first thoughts as she looks at you is how much money are you reeking of. For her, she wants to see the Armani, Gucci, Prada, LV, Polo, and the D&G's. By just looking at you and giving you the once over, she can tell how much money you have got, and if you are playing rich or not (that is, if you have had to borrow these items to try and impress her).
The sex freak: She's all about the package. I mean how big are you down there and what she can do with that. So the men at heart with boy packages have got no chance with her. An exception might be if he knows how to use his other assets (i don't have to mention them, am sure you all know what am talking about...) or is capable of ensuring that she is satisfied to the core. Even for her, the physical appearance goes a long way in determining whether or not she actually decides to get to the stage of getting to see, and feel the package.
The knockout: Now she is the babe that leaves a lasting impression on the guy. I mean from the time he sets his eyes on her, she is all he wants. Why? She has got the total package; from the looks to the personality, to how she carries herself and how she dresses. This girl knows her stuff; what flatters her and who she is. She is proud of what she is and this is portrayed by how she carries and presents herself. Now she is the type a guy sees and straight away wants to wife. You have got to have your shit together to impress her and even get her to notice you as hse knows her worth.
The perfect combo: She is a mix of all the previous sets. She has got the mix of the sets explained above in the perfect blend a guy admires. She is religious, spends wisely on things that flatter her and are a necessity, encourages wise spending and a little spoiling once in awhile, knows her stuff in bed and has got the beauty and brains (the knock-out effect). Now she is the take home to mama and introduce as her new daughter in-law type. All she looks for is someone who is not afraid to let her in and get to know him for who is really he, what he has to offer and who she can be to him. Her choice is not necessarily dependent on the physical attributes but on a combination of character and how she is attracted to you.
Is there a possibility of meeting a woman with certain attributes from the sets? Yes, I believe there is. To an extent I believe there is a combination of sets during our life-cycle.
Now there are different sets of men in this world; the religious hunk, the goal getter, the mama's boy, the grandiose, and the perfect combo. Lets take a look at each;
The religious hunk: These guys will hardly date girls they did not meet in their religious setting. On his first encounter with a chick, she tries to see how seriously she takes the matters of God. He looks for the active participants in the place of worship. So choir members, ushers, creche workers etc tickle his fancy. Who a girl is and how she carries herself in the religious setting determines if he makes a move on you as this are the major determining factors for him when making a choice.
The goal getter: This is the career oriented man. His type of chick is a woman that can hold her own. She must have a good job with steady career progression. He is likely to meet girls he goes for through his business contacts, connections or work-related events . He will not go for a girl that could potentially be a liability for him. He likes that she works and they can rub minds together on the intellectual and social level. He loves to look good in public and admires a woman that matches this.
The mama's boy: The way to his heart is to possess the character he loves in his mom. Also once you win his mom over you are in. He looks for the comforting things that he has associated with his mom in girls. So if his mom is a great cook and that what he really loves; you will be considered as long as you know your stuff in the kitchen.Whatever he likes in his mom as long as you possess that quality you are fine.
The grandiose: Now he is into impressing others.As long as a girl is extravagant, flamboyant, and showy; you have got his attention. So if you are into designers, big cars and the likes you are definately his type. Now he might not be necessarily rich so if his status can be upgraded or you can support the life style he tries to protray, you are in.
The perfect combo: Now he has the other sets in a perfect mix. He is the man girls die to be with. The take me home to dad type as I have found the guy! As such he is a keeper. At the rate at which girls throw themselves at him, all he wants is one that loves him and makes him happy. Obviously he has to be attracted to you. He looks for a woman who can see beyond the pretense and machoness to who he really his and help build and support his future with her in it.
A lot of men and women go through at least two of these sets during their life-time as different factors affect us during our life cycle.
A saying goes; its all good and nice to love the body but when that fades what will be left...
Real men and women don't love the most beautiful people in the world, they love the ones who can make their world the most beautiful.
Appreciate the uniqueness. if what you see by the eye doesn't please you, then close your eyes and see from the heart. because the heart can see beauty and love more than the eyes can ever wonder. A girl with the prettiest face, skinniest waist or a guy with the macho body, strength to carry you and throw you in the air might not always have the biggest heart to love you with. The diamond you are going after might just be a stone compared to the ruby fighting for you attention.
Babes!!! open your eyes o and stop running after "the rock". That perfect guy you want might be the death of you.
Dudes!!! Let Halle Berry and Angelina Jolie go and look at the beauty fighting for your attention, right there in-front of you and stop comparing her to them.
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